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I am creative and social and women want that
I have dressed myself with care and touch of flair – and
women dig that
I am relaxed because I like and accept myself and women are
grateful for that
I create my own fate, am a bit of a rebel, and women find that
sexy
I am wise and battle-scarred, and women coddle to that
By keeping your focus on the positive aspects of you, you cultivate a confident
energy. The story you tell about yourself, in your body, words and action is the
story that women will accept right up front.
It may be exactly what the next beautiful woman you meet is looking for. When
you carry yourself with these beliefs, you will discover that women are
EVERYWHERE.
At school, at work, online, in the mall, on the street, at the gym. Where they once
were invisible, they appear to you before your eyes because they are suddenly
attracted to your positive vibe.
If you thought there might be a magic “pickup” or approach secret – this is it.
Be happy, positive and confident in who you are – and women will WANT to go
on the ride.
Take Action #7: See Every Moment As A Potential Magic “Movie Moment”
What I don’t like is the kind of marketing some people do – “seduce any woman
anywhere!”
That’s bullshit. Some women are grieving a death. Some are tense over some
pressure in their lives. Some just aren’t going to like you – and some you are not
going to like.
You can’t have “any woman any time.”
But you can discover a fantastic woman anywhere!
Everywhere you go during the day, you have opportunities to have positive
interactions with women. Not to “seduce them” but to open a fun interaction with.
-A kind word, a little joke, a compliment without neediness. Talk to everyone.
Say, “hello” to everyone. Be a positive presence.
Even if she’s not going to jump into your arms and bed that night -- and she
might! -- any women, every woman is a doorway to a new social circle, and a
larger pool for you.
Every encounter is a treasure waiting to be explored.
That’s why you should look and feel your best whenever you leave your house.
It’s like my son said when he was 3 and I asked him why he went to sleep in his
crusader armor, his cowboy boots, his sword in hand and his belt stuffed with, as
he called them “my pistols, histols, gistols and nistols.”
He looked at me through his visor and said, steely as Dirty Harry, “you never
know.”
Same thing. Wherever you go, that amazing life changing woman may be there,
waiting for you to simply open a conversation with an offhand comment.
You never know.
So treat every moment as a possible encounter. Super market. Post office.
Sidewalk. Café. Airplane. Anywhere.
And of course, here is where you can get creative. You can CREATE a movie
moment.
Back into her.
Pet her dog and make believe he is telling you a secret message that “mommy
needs a hug.”
Take her shopping basket “by mistake” and then apologize – and then look at her
groceries and playfully say you like hers better ☺ – and decide that you want to
keep her basket instead.
The more confidently you carry off these flirtations, the cooler she will think you
are. It’s those polite, golf-clothes wearing, deferential guys who don’t turn them
on.
Take Action #8: Act the King, Not the Jester
A sly quip slipped amid very proper conversation is far more attractive than a
jumpy, jokey aggressive assault.
You are a man of some years and experience; you are expected to act
knowledgeable, respectful and mature.
But once you set that context, then you can enjoy being the self-assured rule-
breaker.
Remember, and this goes especially for younger women or beautiful women of
any age – they are constantly getting hit on, having nasty sexual things said to
them on the street, and generally often feel treated disrespectfully.
You should be the man who is different.
For younger women, you respect their independence and assuredness. Treat
them, at first, like an intellectual equal, but then, within that context, don’t be
afraid to tease them about the gaps in their knowledge. Don’t insult. Tease.
For beautiful women over 35, say, you want to respect them not so much by
speaking to their intelligence, but to their grace and the beauty of who they are. -
The beauty of the love that they offer or the beauty that they bring to the world.
“I love the way that looks on you” is better than “nice dress!”
****Remember – you are not complimenting – you are APPROVING of her. This
is the far more authoritative position to be in.
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